MaXIMIze - More on Healing

Today is Easter Sunday, the day that Christ rose from the dead according to the Bible. Three days he lay in the tomb before he rose.

Note that - three days. Even coming back from the dead takes time, so why do we think we can get through or over things quickly?

We can't - period. It takes time to work through all the things that got us to where we are right here, right now. Rome wasn't built in a day, and healing takes time. And the deeper or more repeated the wound, the more healing time you need to be whole.

So, stop, breathe, realize it is okay to feel your pain, it is okay to pull out those experiences into the cold light of day and analyze them. It is okay to work through your issues, taking as much time as you need to heal from them so you can choose another path when you come to the crossroads again, so you can get out of the roundabout your life seems to be trapped in. And most of all, realize it is okay to seek help.

Also, realize that if you don't take the time to work through your issues and heal your wounds now, you are taking the chance that you will be wounding others that come into your life from this point forward.

So be good to yourself and be fair to others in your life. Take the time you need to become healed and whole. You owe that to yourself as much if not more than you do to the others in your life!